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writes:Ok, i have been wanting to ask fro some advice. My girlfriend of about 10 months barely gave me my and her first hand job about a week ago, and it was also the first time i rubbed/fingered a girl and it was her first time too. She ended up liking giving me a handjob because she did it soo much and i liked it as well. We told each other that we would let each other do it almost anytime, even to eachother at the same time, depending on how it was. She said that she doesnt know if she would ever give me a blowjob though, but i dont mind if she doesnt, it is Her decision ad i respect that. I told her, since i really like how she smells down there, that i wonder if she would taste good, but she said that she doenst think she would let me try that since its just weird to her. Is there any way that you think i could make her to at least let me try it once. If she didnt like it then i just simply wouldnt do it, same as if i didnt like how she tastes. But would there be any way that i could convince her into letting me try it?
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reader, fishdish +, writes (18 December 2009):
 oh, no i wouldn't go taste her behind her back that's a little creepy! it takes a little bit for women to share her smells with another person; i think it was aunty bimbim that was on here theorizing that because unlike men, who have their junk all external to their bodies, women have to physically open themselves up, and there's a lot of vulnerability in that action. I'm sure she trusts you, and with your encouragement and building her up and patience she will open up more to you.
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reader, eelizabethh(:  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Give her a reason to want you to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Respect Her Wishes No Matter How Bad You Dont Want To Do It. She'll Find It Sexy When You Listen To Her And Most Likely Be More Willing . :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFishdish, I would do it, but she wouldnt let me. The first time i did that to her, and i didnt go too far into her, maybe about an inch or so, i tried smelling my finger and she wouldnt let me do it. She said that it was just weird and made me go wash my hands. The second time, later that day, i did smell it, and it smells great and i let her know and again she did the same thing. I would try to do it but i know she wouldnt let me do it right in front of her so i dont know. Maybe when i go wash it off, right before i actually wash my hand?
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reader, fishdish +, writes (14 December 2009):
I agree about taking pressure off, but i mean, you could finger her and then put your finger in your mouth for a taste. I think it's sexy when guys do that.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Sounds like she's just not ready for that kind of action. And good for her, if I do say so myself... you wouldn't want her doing something she doesn't want to do, or isn't emotionally ready for, would you? She just won't appreciate it now like she will when she's older. So chill out and let the magic happen in time. You'll get there when you're older and then you'll have your "taste" for the rest of your life!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you guys. That really helped. I wouldnt want to scare her or make her leave me just for something like that. I can go without a hand/blowjob, but if she want to do it i wont stop her or force her to ever do it.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 You both are too young to recognize the magic of oral and hand job. It is extremely divine and pleasing, but at the same time it demand some maturity. You both have to wait for but it is good that you both has started communication.
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reader, BlueBag  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 As the aunt said below, she has told you she's not ready for that yet so do not push her into it. There's nothing worse than for a young teen being pushed into something sexual they have said they are not ready for.
Respect her wishes and be content that she's let you go as far as you have already. There's absolutely no need to rush these things, you'll have the rest of your life to experiment with sex.
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