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I want my ex back - how do I speed up the process?

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Question - (4 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *uckyhelp writes:

Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up 4 months ago on his terms. But recently he has spoken up and thinks he still loves me, he says he misses us and that he couldnt see himself with anyone else but isn't sure yet. He is going away for a week in the October break (half term-depending where you live) to have some space to himself and is basically doing some thinking to see if he does want us to be back together or not, this leaves me confused.

And without pushing him away I would like some advice on how to kind of speed up the process of getting back with him, and to make him see that he does want to get back together.

Replies are much apreciated. x

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

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Duckyhelp agony auntThanks guys, you have really helped. I hope he choses the right desision. :S

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A female reader, confused56 Canada +, writes (4 October 2009):

I agree with CaringGuy. You should just be happy that he is considering being with you again. Its good for him to be thinking about this instead of just jumping in for "convienience" and ending up hurting you later.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

You can't speed him up. If you speed him up, he might make the wrong decision and you'll get hurt again. He's thinking and has give you the dates that he will be thinking. If, however, he hasn't said anything after the break, then don't wait around for him any longer.

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