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writes:I was seein a boy who I REALLY liked for 2 months until last week when I finished it. I finished it cos I thought that I was makin all the effort and cos of this I thought that he didnt like me as much as I like him. So I text him saying that I think we should just be friends as we see things differently. But afterwards I asked a question on here to see if I had done the right thing and the answers I got were that I acted too hastily and that maybe I should of talked to him about it.Well now we are still friends and we talk and that but I really want to get back with him but I dont know what to say. Ive already apologised for finishing with him like that and I thought that that would hint that I still like him but he either doesnt see that or he doesnt like me anymore because he doesnt respond!! Do I have to say it outright that I still like him? And how would I say it? The thing is, I hate chasing men as I feel it makes me look desperate but I really dont wanna let him go. PLEASE HELP!
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reader, cupidhelper  +, writes (24 September 2007):
everything above, plus
you gotta take it at his pace. If he's not going fast enough for you and you dump him again, you lose him as a boyfriend and a friend.
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reader, rcn +, writes (23 September 2007):
 It sure is easier to end it than it is to get things back to the way it was. Here's the deal, if he did like you before, he might still, but you ended it. If you touch a hot stove and it burns you, how many times do you have to touch it to find out it hurts?
You're going to not only have to apologize, but you're going to have to do it differently. Let him know why you did what you did. How you feel what you did was a mistake, and that you were scared. Within the apology, you ask for another chance with this relationship. But first knowing you don't deserve one, but you'd make it up to him if he could see it in his heart to try again. And you're not going to let your fears screw it up this time.
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reader, GS +, writes (23 September 2007):
i dobt he relises you sayin sorry means you still like him, i think you shud tell him as soon as possibal if you dont wanna loose him, you shud just say to him that you regreted endin it becus you still reli like him, explain 2 him y u ended it but definatly tell him that u still like him wats the worst that can happen? if he says he still likes you 2 then thats great :) but if he says he doesnt feel the same way then maybe it wud help you move on and you cud always stay close friends, but if you dont tell him how you feel nuthins gunna change and he will never kno and you may like him for ages and it will b difficult for you, but if you wer the one that ended it and hes still friends with you i think he still likes you so u shud just go for it good luck :) X
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