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writes:Im 18 years old. I dont get why I dont have a bf. And why guys never seem to be inteIrested in me.I dont see anything majorly wrong with me, in fact I could list alot of good qualities about myself- caring, understanding, sensitive, smart, honest, reliable and dependable...im pretty too. Alot of my friends on the other hand pretty much all have bfs. And they can be exstremely cruel to me and their bfs, arent that good looking, are manipulative and just plain rude at times.I dont get it? It honestly gets me down so much. I feel like im not good enough or something for anyone. The only reason I can think of is that im not skanky enough for most guys my age...Or maybe because im not overly confident and loud, maybe thats what turns guys off? my ex bfs friends said they hated me because i was a quiet person. do you think this may be why i find it hard to find a guy who is interested in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not confident at all. just because i can recognise good points meants nothing. its one thing to know them...but another to truly believe in them. im not up myself if thats what your implying.
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reader, baybee-emz  +, writes (23 September 2007):
 i cant see the problem tbh,
you seem to have a lot of confidence.
but maybe if lads hear you..erm, how to put this, insulting your own friends the way you just did in the way you have phrased your question it might frighten them off a little bit.
dont be overly confident is my advice atm, let the lad be able to tell you your pretty without you knowing it yourself.
let him be the gentleman.
and good luck,
im sure you'll pull soon if your as great as you say you are.
lots of love,
Emzi xx
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