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*mandanash
writes:Today I was in a side room in my uni building. I was talking to a friend about my ex and I said "That dick wad dumped me!". My ex was standing right outside when I said this, and I don't know if he heard me or not. I feel so guilty, but I am very bitter towards him. What should I do? Apologized to my ex? I feel really bad for saying that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 October 2011):
I really think you should just leave this well alone. If you go to him, you're likely to get more hurt than you already are. I think you need to spend more time and effort trying to get over him now, because it's clear your bitterness and anger is taking far too much control, and that will start to make you look bad in front of others.
What you don't want is to say these things so much that he winds up getting the sympathy vote. Let this one go, accept it happened and continue to move on from him. You can't even be sure he heard - imagine apologizing to him for something he doesn't even know about. It'll just look worse for you/
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (6 October 2011):
 WHY would you/should you do anything? .... or feel in any way peculiar about this????? IF what you say is correct (that he dumped you).... then, perhaps, he IS a dick wad, and it makes no difference if he hears it from you or anybody else.....
Good luck....
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reader, aebniala +, writes (6 October 2011):
If what you said is truth, dont worry ,that he heard or not you were honest.Its better when he is not there, but you were honest. If you change your mind of him and plan of dating. you will have some explainning to do. You can always say that it was truthfull at the moment, her heard, and that you change your mind since. Dont say it if you dont mean it. you are an adult, act like one.
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