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writes:So I have some major relationship problems. Firstly, we live in different states, 2000 miles a part. We have known each other for over a year now. I've met her a fair amount of times. And I'm going to keep this story sparse, but we argue all the time over the phone, and she's the one starting it, all the time. She is a control freak, and has massive jealousy issues, she's not very sophisticated, she only likes having her way and she expects me to pay for everything. The sex is great, we get along when we are together, but I feel I've just lost my feelings for her, and don't think I love her. She is smoking hot, like, 10/10. But she's not smart at all. For those who have seen family guy, I feel that I'm brian, and she is gillian. The biggest issue, is probably that we argue non stop over the phone, and its always stupid things. I can't talk to girls, I can't drink, have a good time without her complaining about it, and its just too much. After we have sex, I lay there and just think to myself that I should break things off, even though the sex is great. Please help out. I'm pretty certain I'm going to finally break things off with her, its just too much, and her lacking intelligence is a fairly big factor, not to mention her ignorance towards things like music, and other things in general.Ps, I'm not illiterate, I'm just writing this all from my phone, thus the bad grammar.Thanks.
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reader, Tasmanian devil  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Why don't you write her a letter it makes sense because of the distance and letters are generally considered personal, but if she really is like gillian, then i think she'd miss out the sentiment part of it, and wouldn't really be to bothered about the technique of dumping as long as its not by text (2 cold) and doesn't involve 'its not you, its me' (2 patronising and cliche even if she is gillian). And remember to mention how its not working out, your always arguing rather than she was to ignorant 4 u
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 March 2010):
You live in a different state 2000 miles apart, she's starting the arguments, she's a control freak, she's jealous, she likes only her own way and expects you to pay for everything. You don't think you love her, and you don't consider her sophisticated enough.
All signs that she's not the one.
End it and move on.
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