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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:last month my boyfriend and I had a huge fight which leads to me threatening him that i will break up with him if he doesn´t change and he said ahy don´t we end it now. I was really shocked and asked him what did you say ?? he repeated what he said and i asked why? are you serious and then he said nothing just forget everything I said. i never heard from him since but I did try to contact him after 2 weeks. he ignored me when i tried to contact him he never replied to my text or answer my calls he didn´t even call back. I think this time it really is over. he is my first love. the pain is unbearable. i want him back but there´s nothing i can do to make him come back. right now i am becoming obsessed with himI am always checking he´s facebook account. waiting for him to change he´s status to single which would really confirm that it really is over. the question is should I really wait for him to change he´s facebook or should I change mine first to gain the ´upper hand´? i love him so much and i am still hoping he´d change he´s mind. but I don´t wanna look desperate or needy just because I still have our photos on facebook and I didn´t change my relationship status. I don´t want him to think that I´m chasing him but I don´t want him to think that I never really cared because I immediately changed it my stat. or should I just delete my account all in all. help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): he ignored me the last time i saw him. It feels so bad.
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reader, tux  +, writes (14 November 2009):
 you shouldn't change your status just to spite him nor to get the upperhand.. if you still love him and want to be with him, work at it and wait. if you dont want to then it is simple.. just change your status and be single.
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