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I am puzzled by my colleague's behaviour, since I mentioned to her I am dating another co-worker. How to respond to this?

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Question - (27 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2008)
A female Canada, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone.

I have been single for about a year now and there is a guy at my workplace who I have noticed and who has noticed me.He asked me out last week. I mentioned it to a friend who I work with. She is single but is in a relationship

Ever since I mentioned he has asked me out she has been flirting up a storm with him in front of me. She did not give him the time of day before.

I am confused and puzzled by her behaviour. It is not the end of the world really as I am sort of interested but not in love or anything.

Why is she beharing like this and how can I respond to it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

I would just ignore her, she seems very childish and attention-seeking.

Just give it time, she will get bored, this guy obviously is not interested in her and in time will think she is just silly.

I wouldn't tell her anything of importance again she is not much of a freind..

Take time out to speak to this guy when you are on your own, if you think there is a connection then take things further.

But don't tell this strange woman anytthing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

hunny if shes doing this then she is no freind of yours!

you just need to show her you're not bothered and just relax about it babe x

and if she carries on doing it just have a quiet word with her

she will soon get the message x

good luck hun x

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