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writes:Hey guys, c:So, lately, I've been dealing with this issue for about two weeks to be exact. There is this guy I like, and he makes it obvious he feels the same.For example, when I first met him, he squeezed my thigh and smiled. He usually sat by me and we chatted for a bit. So he goes to a different school, so when he showed up today at MY school, I was a bit overjoyed. I nonchalantly sat with my friends and he came up to me and started massaging my shoulders. I giggled quietly and muttered "Hi." I'm sorry, but does this sound a bit skimpy at all? I'm not easy, if you're getting that impression, I promise.The bad thing is, he's 15 and I'm 13. Is that much of a difference? My friends tease me about it constantly, but I'm not sure of what to think. So I'm reaching out to all of you out there and hopefully I'll get an answer soon. :)THANKS FOR READING!Sincerely,KylieP.S. I forgot to mention this, but he and his family and I and my family are going to watch a movie this weekend. Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish +, writes (13 November 2011):
 well this is a time in your life when guys are still cute and new, and you're figuring out what kind of guys you click with and don't click with. It's good that you a) both figured out that you didn't see any potential there and b) told him this, so you aren't leading him on. The more you reflect on what you DO want in a guy, the easier things will be in the future and finding your perfect guy. Just enjoy getting to know others, don't move too fast, and have fun figuring out what works for you.
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reader, TheCagedInsanity +, writes (13 November 2011):
TheCagedInsanity is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for everyone's advice. :D I really appreciate it.So, last night he and I began to hold hands and all that stuff... But there was nothing there. I suppose I was just caught in the moment... I don't have those feelings for him. I told him that I only saw him as a friend and he understood, or at least that's what he made it seem like. It's like this a lot with the guys I like - I have the hots for them for a few days and once we start something, that spark is gone. Do you guys know what's going on? Is there something mentally clicking around in my head? Or am I just worrying about a bunch of balonie? [- Spell check?]
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reader, guitarloverr123 +, writes (12 November 2011):
Well, im around your age, he went to far a bit, but hey guys will be guys, its possible he might like you, not to sure i had this crush on this guy for 4 years and i learned the hard way he didnt like me, but he always gave me signs, anyways you guys arrent that bad of age, its actually pretty good, so you should probably hang with him more and wait til he asks you out or tells you how he feels about you :) good luck
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reader, fishdish +, writes (12 November 2011):
I don't think that's that big of an age gap, even at your age. what is that, freshman and junior, or 8th grade and sophomore? I guess if it's the latter it would be a little weird, and I'd say keep a friendship thing up until you get to high school and see where it goes from there.
Or, if you're ready to pursue it, if the movie goes well I'd tell him you're craving some food from your favorite pizza place in town and if he wants to go sometime this week, that should work. they say the way to win a man's heart is through his stomach ;) keep us posted!
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reader, goldie22  +, writes (12 November 2011):
It does sound like he's interested....but.. (im gonna sound so old now :/ )
13 is so young for those sort of games. Its not the age gap itself its your actual ages. If you do.feel that a relationship is going to.occur then just.make sure that you take things slowly. Or just wait a while. At least it gives you a chance.to get to no eachother better
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