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*ojkci
writes:I'm 15 and about to turn 16... I suck talking to girls and I've gotten rejected before because I wear glasses and have lazy eyes.Any advice to how to boost my confidence and telling me how to talk to girls easier?Getting rejected for that reason has lowered my self-esteem a lot..I'll really appreciate the advice, thanks~
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reader, sojkci +, writes (18 November 2011):
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Now normally I wouldn't comment on something like this because I feel you're way too young to worry about talking to girls right now- and you should be focused on school. But if you're going to do it anyway, I hate to see you suffer in the process. #1. You should definitely work on building up your confidence. Make a list of 5-10 things that you like/love about yourself and repeat them daily. This would help you shift your focus from looking at all of the negative things,and help you put more focus on the positives. Read some confidence builder articles/books as well. #2. Getting rejected is apart of life. But to quote Rocky from the movie 'Rocky Balboa'.."it ain’t about how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward." Keep your head up- and keep moving forward. Whether you're experiencing difficulty with school, girls, family problems, or any other aspect of your life, try to stay strong. Here's some additional information for you to read:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-approach-a-girlthe-right-way.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-a-confidence-booster.htmlBest of luck to you!
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