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writes:I had a long distance relationship and I still like him. We both found people that we like in our own states, but nobody I have dated ever treated me like him(even though long distance.) I found out that he still ikes me, but last time we dated it didn't work out because we were so far away. Shoiuld I go back out with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everybody who wrote back. I really liked everybody's advice and hope that all is great!!
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (4 February 2011):
I guess it can work if you really want it to, so long as you are both happy with not seeing each other everyday or week and of course trust plays a huge part in a LDR too.
I have tried long distance but it has unfortunately left a bitter taste... the guy was rather lazy and moaned about the travelling....plus when I am in a relationship I want to see them on a regular basis and do things together after work etc.
However, I know someone who was in a LDR for about 3 years and eventually moved in together as they felt this was the best option for them. So, if you really do want this to work on a long term basis, one of you may have to be prepared to relocate.
Good luck!
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reader, faenon  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 It all comes down to what kind of LDr this was to be honest. Was it one where you both actually arranged metting once a month or for a month vacation together every couple of months to keep in touch or is it one of these fantasy online ldr's?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 Dont let distance come in the way of love!! Go for it! So he's faraway from you...big deal! If you want it to work, it will...despite the distance and whatever other problems there might be. If you think this relationship has the potential to work out and you both really like each other and are willing to give it another shot, GO FOR IT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): I had a similar situation . But found out she was "cheating "
she didnt think going out on dates every other night with different guys and drinking every night with older men or playing the field was cheating . just another form of meeting new people . I still love her dearly . I put the past in the past . But the trust is long gone . I hope nothing like that was happening in your relationship . think of the real main reason you two split up and if trust can be in your relationship again . Thats the biggest part of a long distance relationship . with phones and web cams ect . communication isnt that hard .
Hope all goes well .
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