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writes:ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i finsished yr 11 (last year of school) i added him on a social networking site, and we got talking a lot. then one day he sent me a message saying to add him on msn. so i was like ok, and added him. on msn we had what i would call innapropriate discussions on topics such as male masturbation, his ex girlfriends, when he lost his virginity ect. which you know wouldn't have seemed like a problem If i hadn't gone back to my schools sixth form were occasionaly get him as a substitute. and now im stuck. i don't no wether or not these chats are allowed, like if it goes against the teacher student boundaries, and if they are why he isn't following them. i'm 16 he's mid 20's . the reason i thought it was against the boundaries is because he said 'i can't talk to you in school because i might say the wrong thing'. but i don't understand how he could say the wrong thing. and know it's like he is really paranoid because he wont talk in school unless know one is around. i dont fancy him any more, and because i dont i dont like his behaviour anymore, is it wrong what he has done or is doing? is it against boundaries. please help me!. why is it ok for him to want to talk to me on msn but not in school ect?!lovexxx
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (8 October 2008):
 This has been in British news recently hasn't it! The teachers want the age lowered to 16. At the moment, if they have these talks with pupils under 18, they're being illegal and will be put into jail for it. Full stop. They want the age lowered to 16. I don't think it will happen. Yes, it's illegal. Get a copy of the conversations you've been having and take them to your headteacher. He'll lose his job, and by law the school will have to report it to the police, he'll go to court and be put into prison for grooming a pupil. End of.
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