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writes:im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf.but my current bf will hate meand my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me.i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite.my period was about not even a whole 3 daysif my parents find out they will kill me.i dont have a ride or money to buy a testwhat should i do?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (7 November 2007):
 See if you can find a Teen Pregnancy Center ir a /teen Pregnancy Hotline listing in your local phonebook.
Here is a site you might be able to get some help here also.
Birthright International
A www.birthright.com
Tollfree Number 888-220-9140
Please get help and inform your parents so the can help you to be safe and well cared for.
Blue_Angel0316
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reader, rcn +, writes (7 November 2007):
 You did fine. Good job for your first post
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthere isnt any dollar stores around here.
ya i have a little bit of money.
ive never posted anything.
that was my first post.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 November 2007):
 You have posted this problem before but continue to ignore the excellent advice you get, what's up with that? They sell the pregnancy tests at the Dollar Store, surely you can afford a buck? You don't really display the symptoms of pregnancy but you need to find out for sure.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (7 November 2007):
Whether you are or aren't pregnant it is unhealthy not to eat. If your stomach is hardened it could be that your bowels aren't working properly if you aren't eating right.
If you are sexually active it is also a big possiblity that you are in fact pregnant. You need to seek medical treatment quickly. If pregnant you are putting the baby as well as yourself at risk.
You say you don't have a way to go to the doc or money to pay. You have stepped over a line that has put you in a bad spot. I am not here to judge you. I want to help. Please confide in your Mom or another adult who might be able to help you.
My daughter became pregnant at the age of 16. She feared telling me because she knew how I felt about sex before marriage. However she did turn to me and I thank God that she did. I wasn't happy about it but she was my child and I loved her. I wanted the best possible outcome for her and my grandchild. I write about my 12 year old grandchild here quiet frequently.
You can make a few calls also to check with places that might be able to assist you. There is a foundation called SAVE A LIFE that is springing up everywhere. Your local health department can give you ideas too I am sure. I will advise you that you should stop all sexual activity. In case you are not pregnant it will save you the stress of all of this next time.
If you are you still don't need to be active at this point in your life. You are really much too young to be active. Give yourself time to be young and to experience a childhood before you move on to being an adult. If you can't control your actions at least PLEASE use protection. You can get a number of diseases that can not only lead to health problems they can cause permanant damage or even DEATH.
I do pray you will let your parents in on your life. Even if they are angry I am sure they love you enough to help you. I pray that the three of you can work this out. Hopefully you are not pregnant but if you are you must be strong. Let your family help you . That's what being a family is all about. Blessings to you and may the Lord watch over you and keep you safe.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 the stress that your going through may be the cause for your period not coming, also if you havent been having them for long then this might also be the case. if you are not pregnant and sexually active i would also suggest you go on the pill or make sure that are condoms are always avaliable. go and see your school nurse...or a local doctors these can both provide you with information
good luck
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (7 November 2007):
 HiFirstly your periods can become iregular should you get stressed or having a change in lifestyle, if you are fretting over the possibility of being pregnant etc then this could be the cause of that,The symtoms you described are not typical symtoms of pregnancy but you should see a doctor to rule out pregnancy and to see if there is another reason for your symtoms! Hope it all works out for you!
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reader, rcn +, writes (7 November 2007):
I would seek assistance from a doctor. Notify your school nurse. Their may be a possibility of pregnancy. I pulled up a quick medical search using the symptoms you provided. There a lot more issues that include those symptoms, and it's going to take a doctor to diagnose it for you.
Take care
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