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30-35,
*arah96
writes:There's a guy I used to work with who I'm also sleeping with. The problem is that leading up to me staying at his place we'll be texting loads, but afterwards he doesnt text and wont reply to my messages. Then 2-3 weeks later he'll text and be like "sorry i didn't have credit", and try to get me to come over. It really annoys me! I think of him as a friend, does this mean that he only cares about the sex? But when i've bumped into him the days after sex he's been moody and depressed. this normal? should i keep sleeping with him or not?Thanks!
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 2-3 weeks before he gets credit on his phone?
Sorry the guy is a user and a moron. But you dont have to put up with it do you. There are plenty more fish in the sea Babe, dont lower yourself to speak to him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): I think he is using you as a booty call. He only phones when he wants sex and is not looking for a relationship with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Yeah he is definitely with you for sex and nothing more. You have just stated the classic signs. I would absolutely not keep sleeping with him if I were you. That is unless you are ok knowing that he just wants you when he is horny. If you are ok with that then keep seeing him. But you know the routine. So don't try to call him after sex cause he is probably going to be moody and not answer. And be ready to only see him when he feels like it about every three weeks and ONLY for sex.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 I agree with Waterloo.
This is not the sort of behavior of someone who cares for you, or even a FRIEND. A friend will at least check in once in a while to see how you are? It also seems that you have more feelings for him than he has for you.
He might just really be depressed, and in a bad place, and if you want, then you can be there for him as a friend, but i would definitely say, take a step back, and cut the sex.
He is using the oldest trick in the book - I didn't have credit - but hey - you have two legs, and it seems like you stay in the same area, if you bump into him. He could at least be nice to you then.
You seem like a very nice and supportive girl. I'd say, find yourself a guy that will appreciate you...
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Why are you even still thinking about him? He cannot even keep in touch with you.Appears moody etc when you see him, what are you waiting for? He is just using you. Has sex and doesnt want to know you for a while. You deserve better. The next time he gets in touch - Tell him to F off!
take care
xx
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Sounds to me like he is already involved with someone else and your the bit on the side. find out now before you get too attached.
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