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writes: im so in love with this bloke i have consided stalking him!is this back im still considering it?
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reader, Sally R. Cinnamon +, writes (24 November 2006):
if you love him truly you won't stalk him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): The fact that your thinking about this means you've already reached Desperation point.
so none of what we'll say is really gonna get though so I'll give you the reality scoop to let you know what you will relisicly let yourself in for when you start stalking him(how sexy he will find this it'll remind him of Glen closes character in fatal atraction haha),
first of all he will get you blocked on his phone and email and tell everybody his friends and family what a weirdo you are, that will make you about as populur as a piece of poo in a swimming pool! wont that be fabulous? secondly He'll call the police and you will end up sharing a cell with a women bulit like a brick shithouse named Berther who only too eger to make your aquatance!!!
Ok Joking aside, think about the conseqences if you really Love him why do you want to forse yourself on him? and scare the crap out of him? its infatuation hun! pick up YOUR Life now while you still have the chance darlin you might want to think about some therpy to sort yourself out when your minds feeling better, I garantee you will meet a love that really loves you back Im not saying it can never be him but It certainly want be if you think about unhealthely stalking this man he will emegrate to get away if you do this, anything a person chaces in Life Runs away! please belive me Im not saying this to hurt you. You maybe mad at my honesty its hard to hear I know Im sure your not a bad person or a weirdo you just need help, Im saying this because it needs to be said do the right thing Please xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006):
I think most people consider stalking someone at least once in their life. I think going through with it though is probably a little bit more of a problem.
The fact you want to stalk him should show that you are not "so in love" with this guy, but rather you are infactuted by him. Probably because you know you can not have him?
Stalk him and you will mean nothing more to him than being a joke for him and his mates when he's out drinking. So don't do it - keep that self-dignity and respect, and move on. Find someone whom you can have all to yourself and don't need to even consider stalking. Someone that is right for you will want to be with you. Good luck.
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reader, LISAG +, writes (23 November 2006):
Please don't be ridiculous enough to stalk anyone ! I think it is quite natural to have the silly thought of stalking someone but actually doing it is a waste of time, against the law and will not get you anywhere ! Is it an ex boyfriend ? If so, move on find someone else and put your energy and thoughts into them instead. An ex boyfriend of mine once stalked me, it is frightening for the victim and completely pointless. If he finds out you have been stalking him, (which is highly likely) it will put him off you forever !
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