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writes:Me and my ex boyfriend have been off and on for about a year now. we just start "talking" again.Pretty much dating, and i mess everything up and flirt with one of his bestfriends. Which is one of my ex's too.I really do love this guy..and he loves me enough to give me one more chance! and just once more. I need to do everything i can to prove to him that i am very sorry. how do i show and prove that to him? He is so heartbroken. And i am terribly heartbroken to see him like this, and for me to be the cause of it. I don't know what to do. Im slowly going insane. I love him.Someone help me please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): Hi. having just had this done to me i have to say you need to tell your guy how much you love him, how sorry you are and reassure him often how much you love him and how much he means to you. Try and put yourself in is shoes and perhaps you will start to feel what he feels and gain an understanding of why he need sthat reassurance. Having said that, given what happened, you really have to be certain also that you truly do love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): Thank you so much, These answers are very helpful.
(: He still hasn't talked to me today..
But ur right, i shouldn't freak out.
Thanks so much again!
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reader, Logan58 +, writes (24 September 2009):
I'm in a relationship myself... a new one. If I found my girlfriend flirting with my friend, I admit I would be VERY pissed, but I wouldn't be all emo. I would be a little mad so I would talk it over later.. Don't get too down, but he shouldn't be down either. He might think you're playing around??? You're not, but he might could think that. Time is the only cure for him to trust and love you again, soooo don't freak out.. just wait and do stuff that will help him trust you again! :D good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2009):
It's just going to take time and effort. But think carefully, if he's getting worried about you flirting, albeit with en ex, then maybe he's not secure with himself enough yet to be in a relationship. x
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 You flirted with a guy and he's gone all emo cos of it? Basically the issue is that he doesnt trust you, so to prove that you love him you're just going to have to put in the time and make him feel like he's secure and loved. Theres no one-shot, quick-fix to this. But having said that... flirting, (unless you were being sexual/vulgar), really is the most minor offence there is, so don't act like you've commited a terrible sin cos I guarantee he's flirted with other girls whilst with you, difference is that he didnt get caught :P
Best of luck.
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