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I dumped her but I don't want her to move on

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Question - (24 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just broke up with my girlfriend that i really loved and i still do but i got too much going on and it's to hard to be with her. We always were arguing so we broke up. I'm jealous that she will find a new boyfriend and move on i want somebody else but am still attached to her what do i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007):

you can't have you cake and eat it to you dumped her let her go

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A male reader, GreenTea United States +, writes (25 June 2007):

Well If you don't want to move on. Try and get her back. It's cliche but say you made a mistake.

If you truly do want to move on. You have to stop communicating with her for awhile. Don't call,text,IM,Myspace etc. Force yourself to hang out with your guy friends. Go bowling or something. get your mind off her.

Caring about someone and love are not the same thing.

Feel free to message me

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A female reader, mamalouise United States +, writes (24 June 2007):

Well.. to be honest if you really loved her you shouldn't have dumped her. Chances are she really loves you too and is hurt by being dumped. Since you were fighting a lot Perhaps, you both could get back together and see a counselor to remedy what is the problem. Maybe there is an underlying issue that needs to be resolved. If you decide not to get back together you are going to have to let her go. You will find someone else that loves you too. Maybe there won't be anymore fighting in your new relationships.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007):

Well that is normal for you still to be attach to her. What you should do is be her friend and try to find another girl if you find a girl you really like it would be alot easier to let her move on.

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