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writes:Okay, me and my guy have been together since Jan this year. And Im his first proper relationship. He has been with other girls before, but none would give them him the time of day. He spent lots of money on them, but I have to pay for my way in the relationship. He wrote a blog last year claiming he loved one of them and always will and I suspect that he will never love me as he hasnt said it to me yet.Now hes one of those people who loves having alone time where they get a chance to relax and chill otu. But Im the opposite and want to see him as mcuh as I can. But if he wants alone time, I'll give it to him. No problem there.Hes been ill for a long time and is kinda getting over glandula fever, so Im thinking that maybe hes still depressed because of it. Hes the clown of his friends and tries to make others happy, but deep dpwn hes suffering and wont say much to anyone.My question is, do I stay or go? Hes confused in this relationship and I dont want to be wasting my time with something thats going no where.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (4 September 2007):
 If your boyfriend is seeing less of you then maybe there is a problem. talk to him. Communication is your key. sit him down and tell him how concerned and sad you are that he wont spend any time with you. after all you are his girlfriend and he should really spend as much time with you as possible. And about this whole ex girlfriend thing. Maybe he hasnt gotten over her yet. Maybe your just not the type of girl he goes for *not to be so nasty* but I think talking to him will do the world of good. Dont stray along behind him thinking maybe it will turn out ok in the end..it may well but then it may not. so talk talk talk.
ask him why must he always be on his own. Maybe he has depression. Has he been to a doctor?
If he has symptons of
being distant
slow in his actions or to quick
not talkative or too talkative
Tired or very energetic
not eating or drinking to much
then he may well have depression and I think you should stick by him and help him out. But if things get too hard for you then maybe breaking up for the time being will be good but still help him out.
Hope things go well hun i really do
xxx
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reader, sexi  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Hi, speak to him and get him to tell you where you stand in the relationship.Once you know for sure then you can either continue fighting for yourlls relationship and be his support or you can get out of the relationship and move on. Communicate with your bf to get the answers you need.
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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