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I long to be with her but I cant. She is also a girl. I need tips on how to deal with these feelings?

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Question - (24 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *amara writes:

I am in love with a person who will never love me, because we're both girls. I love her very much, with all my heart, and I long to be with her although I know I can't. I would never force her to do anything, or try to convince her. I just need tips on how to deal with these feelings.

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A female reader, Cyg79 United States +, writes (29 September 2007):

Cyg79 agony auntYou need to decided on the type of relationship you wish to have with your friend. I would say don't rush anything and just be her friend. If your feelings are stronger then that, you might want to talk to her. In the end be true to yourself and you'll never go wrong.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (25 September 2007):

rcn agony auntI'd just tell her, that way you know where you stand. You may be surprised, or not, but even if disappointed, it's better to know than to always wonder, and if you know, you'll be able to deal with your feelings a bit better than trying to and not knowing.

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A female reader, sarah g United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2007):

sarah g agony aunthi why dont you tell her how you feel.you never know she might feel the same way.i went to bed with my best friend and it was amazing better than any man hope you get it sorted. sarah x

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