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*ulialove83
writes:How do I know if this guy is into me?I have been seeing/dating this guy since August. We have been intimate sexually with each other. For him to contact me, I have to text him. If I dont text him, he doesnt contact me nor call me. If I send him a chain letter from my phone, he will send it back to me, then ask me how am I doing? what am I doing? Then will ask me to come over? Is he using me as a booty call? few times, he ask me to go out to dinner, and movie. He never said if whether he likes me or not. He does not ask me questions about myself. If I ask him questions about himself, he will answer me, but not ask questions about myself. I like this guy, and I truly do not know if he likes me or not? Someone please help
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reader, just tell me the truth! +, writes (30 December 2007):
 I have a feeling that he's just using you.
If he isn't interested in stuff about you and he doesn't even bother to make contact with you, that's never a good sign.
Sorry, but you need to drop him like he's hot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): Sounds like a classic booty call to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): Better lose the guy, and don't enter into a sexual relationship with the next one until you and he are married - or if you don't believe in marriage, at least wait until you and he are sure you're both in love enough to shack up. Also, sending chain mail is uncool and a good way to get people uninterested in you, guys and girls alike.
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reader, fuckedupkid22  +, writes (5 November 2007):
hi i feel like he's not into you but you shouldn't care you're worth a hell of a lot better than that!!! i say find yourself another guy who will respect you properly. and yes they do exist ;p
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): You have just stated all of the classic signs of a guy who is just using you for sex. Doesn't ask questions. Doesn't call. Only ever wants you to come over when he does talk to you. So yeah you are just his booty call. And no he doesn't truly like you.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (5 November 2007):
 From what you have said this guy is showing a lack of interest in wanting to know you, but when there is a chance of a booty call he really wants to know. When you really like someone you can't wait to see them, they are always on your mind and you can't wait to speak to them. You have been seeing him since August and he has not even told you he likes you, well i think that says it all. If you really like him then speak to him, if you get a lack of response then i would ditch this guy and find someone who gives you the love & respect that you so rightly deserve.
Take care x
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Hello.
This guy is a player he is using you as you have said, Booty Call,he is not interest in you, if he did care why would you have to do all the running, he will also be using other woman in the same way, your the only one who cares about him ,he does not care about anything but getting you into bed, you really need to drop this guy babe, before he really breaks your heart.
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reader, calamitysil +, writes (5 November 2007):
 It doesn't sound to me like he's into you much. It's not a good sign that you are doing all the running. Why don't you hold off contacting him and see what happens? If anything that would give him the message that you're not there at his beck and call. If you don't hear from him, then you'll know the answer. Good luck!
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Ask him straight out where you stand. It does sound that yes you are simply a booty call to him but i cant actualy say that. By asking him you will know once and for all.
Peaches
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