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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've secretly like this boy about a year, just a little crush, but I never told anyone. So recently I've liked him alot, we've met up in town and we text alot, and I started to properly like him. But, he has a girlfriend, so I wasnt being flirty or clingy. So today, he turns up at my school. I looked awful, but he came over and said hello. But when I went to my next lesson, he went to my friend's lesson, and said hello to her too, but he hugged her. Now my friend, who knew I liked him, is saying that she does too and that she's going to ask to meet up with him. She mighthave forgotten that I like him, because I told her a while ago, but still.. she wont stop going on about him and how gorgeous he is blah blah blah, and its driving me mad because I really like him too! I dont want to talk to her about it, because my other friend over heard her saying that she stood more of a chance with him,- which, she doesnt.Please help me! I dont want this to turn into a catfight!
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reader, AnneRose +, writes (13 May 2011):
This has happened to me once... I was about the same age you are ,
and I made the bad decision of betraying my friend and telling bad things about her to the guy and then ,
the guy went back to the girlfriend and a year latter changed class and we never saw him again...
Trust me , you don't want to ruin a friendship over a guy , but make sure to talk to your friend about what you are feeling becouse you really like him and now she started saying she likes him , and if she prefers the guy over you... its becouse she is not a real friend.
This is just my opinion , becouse i've been there and made the bad decision...
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (13 May 2011):
 you have to think logicly.. if your friend wins him over and he dumps his gf for her. they will spend loads of time together and your going to be dumped.and same if you go out with him. dont stand back because you will be dumped yourself.or you could risk it. let her go for him and bank on him refusing her advances. question is. are you a risk taker or like to stand back
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 May 2011):
Since he already has a girlfriend, it's best to remain well clear. Both of you stand to make fools of yourselves if you get into a fight over a guy who is either honest and will stick with his girlfriend, or will use the lot of you and enjoy the drama.
I suspect that he's not bothered by either of you, so stand back and work on getting over him.
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