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I like her and just when I was gonna tell her how I felt, I found out she likes someone else!

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Question - (22 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Just when I was ready to tell her how I feel about her. My friend comes up to me and tells me that she likes another guy in school. Her school since we don't attend the same one. Probably why she is trying to graduate Highschool early. She is one of my closest friends. what do I do? She knows me very well. I am attending her school next year? Tips on how to help me win her heart? I don't care what anyone says I'm not goin to forget about her without trying? If it comes to me getting hurt. Well, at least I tried. But I realy do need your help? What can I do!

Btw I'm not jealous that she likes him. Her friends keep telling her to talk to him and meet him. They don't even know each other(she just knows his name).That can help me try to do something over the summer or until they meet. Eventually it will happen.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007):

okay, first of all before doing anything u should have some courage and faith in ur self.

you dont have choice, except telling her before it is too late, and believe me it wont affect ur friendship negatively; on the contrary it will affect it positively wether she was happy by ur words or not cause it will show that u care. the most important thing for girls is carrying trust me.

here is wht u gonna do: tell her that u have feelings towards her (she will automatically understands) and that wht ever happens u dont want to lose her. and trust me she will respect u a lot and even more.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (23 June 2007):

nologo agony auntIf you tell her now, you will suffer.

She will stay with the guy she likes.

More complications may arise: you may no longer be her friend.

And who knows maybe she wants you to compete with one another.

Chill out and don't rush things with her stay friends for now.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (22 June 2007):

Danielepew agony auntHere's what you can do: tell her now. If she won't be with you, well, man, you tried. I like this attitude of yours. Just don't try to push things if she prefers the other guy. If she wants you, too, be happy.

Good luck.

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