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*unflower87
writes:I have been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and recently he has been spending a lot of time on the internet because he has a lot of spare time on his hands. We both have webpages on popular networking sites but i haven't really gone on mine until yesterday when i discovered that he does not know any of the friends that he has added and moreover 90% of his friends are women with very sexual pictures and racy comments. He hasn't sent any racy comments as far as i know but he has been chatting to a few women that he has never met before.Also i checked the history on the internet and he has viewed lots of women's webpages recently. I don't want to cme across as jealous, but he hasn't told me about all these women and he often deletes his emails and messages. I would love if someone could give me some advice on whether to confront him or just let it go. My friend just laughed and said it was perverted but that i shouldn't worry, but i'm worried as to why he's looking to strange women to chat?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): I have a site where you add friends and leave comments too. I can honestly tell you to ease you mind. I have met tons of married men that are just bored out of their minds with their wives. This is how it goes. We flirt on the site leaving sexy comments back and forth, then if we really get into it, we move to an instant messaging thing. There we talk more, and if that goes good… we actually TALK on the phone LOL. Then, if that works well… we MEET. At first it’s a little weird so we pick a public place and if that goes good… well, there’s been times we meet at his house! When im at the point of going to his house, lets just say im not there to watch TV LOL. Well have sex even on your bed. I’ve meet a few married guys and I love it, ‘cause I don’t have to cook and clean for him – just get my fix and he gets his. I did fall in love with this one guy and he’s falling in love w/me too. Bad thing is he’s married (of course) and yes we met from that site. Okay so I’m going to hell, she was in the hospital and I stayed over his house for that week. It was the best time we ever had. So Yea… if you want to keep your husband – have him DELETE his profile or make it very much joint; regardless how mad he gets. If he gets TOOO upset then, he’s been e-cheating if not cheating on you already. Sorry love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): Thanks for answering so quickly, I think ill wait it out a while, trust him and meanwhile try to make things more exciting. if it gets worse ill let you know, thanks again.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 I think he wants the excitement. I'm not sure what this means, though, so I'm afraid I can't tell you whether you should confront him.
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