I lied to my online love about my age

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am in love with a guy who is 26 and i am 15 years old.... i met him online...he dont know my real age and now i love him alot i want to tell him everything..but i am scared that he will leave me...my intentions was not bad...i was depressed bcause of my family problems and i started chatting online i met him and we fall in love...i know him from 8 months...he knows everything about my family but not that i am a heart patient and i am suffring from marfan syndroms....my father dont love me and my mom...... he is in relationship with other woman and my mom is blind due to diabeties and i dont have any friend i met him online and i fall for him i love him alot...he is living in usa and i am from india....he is coming in october just for me but i cant meet him because he just know half about me not my real age and other things....and i dont want to spoil his life...what can i do? i tried my best to keep myself away from him but i cant i love him alot i cant live without him he was the one who supported me in my bad times.....and when i told him that i cant meet him he said that he loves me and he is coming in india just for me.....and he said that if i dont meet him he will never talk with me again :( i want to meet him but i think its wrong because i lied him about my age and now i am in love with him i just cant understand what to do? is it bad to love someone who is older than you? i think its late now to tell truth....what to do? please help me :(

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