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writes:for a beggining im 14 years old turning 15 this month and my boyfriend turned 16 last month.. but i lied and told him that am onto 16 too! and now everyone even my closest friends think im turning 16 this month, but im really afraid of the future and i wouldnt wanna be called a kid or something (secrets always surface. always. whatever you're hiding, people will find out someday.) and the problem is that i dont want them to find out someday!please, help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, OldiesGyrl +, writes (9 June 2011):
It's easier to tell the truth rather than have to work to keep a lie alive.
But if you do decide to reveal to him that you lied, be sure to mention that it was silly on your part and that you'll remain honest with him from this point on. Either he'll accept it and look past it or he won't.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Fess up. The longer you lie (and the MORE you lie) the harder it will be for you to gt anyone to trust you.
If you tell him WHY you lied about it he might not get too mad. But you want to be a "grown up" act like one, and own your own actions.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (9 June 2011):
 hey you are a kid - and be happy about that and enjoy it while you can. You have the rest of your life to be an adult.
BEtter fess up soon before he finds out on his own. Just explain that you do not know why you lied about it. He probably would understand.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 June 2011):
Come clean now, before it's too late. At some point it will come out, and if it's later, he's more likely to wonder what else you've been lying about too.
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