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She's got another guy and I missed my chance. Should I be friends with her, then?

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Question - (27 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back.

Now according to facebook shes in a relationship, and its clear i've missed any chance.

Would it be a good idea to get in contact but just to be a mate or something? I've no intention of trying to interfer with anything else shes got.

Thanks!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

hi im the original poster and just to point out shes not my ex! shes just someone i fancy and have never actually spoken to...

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A male reader, Samutsen Poland +, writes (27 November 2007):

Samutsen agony auntIf I were her boyfriend I wouldnt like it that her ex is contacting her. And in deed you still have feelings towards her. Do not be the third person.

But there is nothing wrong in being warm and nice towards her chance encounters. This will keep open the option for her to contact you if her relationship finishes independently.

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