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writes:well... i started seeing this girl who i really like the other day, and we really enjoy each others company, but the other night i got drunk with a load of mates and ended up kissing one of them.i dont no whether i should tell her and let her decide what to do, or keep it secret and hope it dissapearswhat should i do?
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reader, guilty fool +, writes (6 October 2009):
guilty fool is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso. I talked 2 her about it earliershe laughed it off and said it was fine.unfortunately, she told me just before hand that her parents don't want us to be together cause I'm in the year above her and they want her to concentrate on her exams.I know she doesn't want that, and she wants 2 go out with me. but I dunno how I could convince herah wellthanks for the advise people
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reader, NightLad  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 I agree with previous posters that advocate honesty.If you were with other people when this happened, than it will be spoken about, and more than likely it will eventually find its way back to her.It would be better to come from you than somebody else. You will have the benefit of being able to explain the situation in context as opposed to somebody wanting to start trouble making up god-knows-what.Worse comes to worse you can always say you were playing 'gay chicken' and lost.Of course, if there was anything more to it than just goofing afound and taking it too far, than you might want to spend some personal time in reflection on that.I hope that helps.
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reader, answersqueen +, writes (4 October 2009):
Trust me your girlfriend would rather want to find out from you than somebody else and you were drunk maybe she will understand a bit better.
HOPE this helps
Answersqueen x :)
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reader, babygurll  +, writes (4 October 2009):
 tell her soon because if you wait it will hurt more and if you want a healthy relationship then tell her because you guys have to trust each other and how can she trust you if your lieing to her so the best thing to do is deff tell her
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (4 October 2009):
I agree with the first person. Being drunk is never an excuse. You can say you would never do it sober but maybe you will think about it. Your still young so don't think you gotta stay in this relationship. If you already kissed someone else just admit that your not really ready to be tied down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Tell her. If the relationship gets deeper and she finds out later it's going to hurt so much more. Also consider this relationship, you cheated so early on, she can't mean too much to you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
You have to think about this relatioship. If you've been seeing her for a couple of weeks and you've already kissed another girl, that's not a good sign. And you should tell her, otherwise your relationship will be built upon a lie. If you lose her, then you'll be far more careful in the future. Think carefully about this relationship and what you want from it.
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