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female
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anonymous
writes: I've been going out with my bf for 11 months now and the honeymoon period where he used to text lots with cute things and text as soon as I left his company...has gone. Does it mean he cares or thinks about me less than he used to?
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reader, Rose_red_09 +, writes (4 October 2009):
Yep - agree with Caringguy, there comes a time in all relationships when that honeymoon period is over and you settle into a relationship. But - yes, speak to him about it. Sometimes it takes one partner to keep the romance and sparkle going - and then the other will respond. If its something that is important to you - then maybe a little encouragement is needed :-)
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (4 October 2009):
I agree with caring guy. Relationships happen in stages. Just because you're in love doesn't mean you don't have to nurture each stage of the relationship. Embrace the progression. I think the best thing you can do is just solidify the fact that you are his woman and see how he responds. I don't know if you two are having sex yet but keep sex separate from the rest of the relationship. In other words don't think I mean solidify the fact you are his woman with some sort of sexual favor. that is not what I mean at all. Look at him differently and try to see where you see him in your life in the future.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
No, it's not that. You've said it. The honeymoon period is over. That means the relationship is progressing. If you're worried, wby don't you tell him that you miss the cute texts and see what he says?
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