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anonymous
writes:This started last year in about September and I don't know why but lately I've started dreaming about this ex boyfriend of mine almost everyday and even when I don't think about him the whole day I still end up dreaming about him and they're good dreams and those dreams make me miss him and now I'm starting to think that I have feelings for the old him because I haven't talked to him for 1 or 2 years now and I don't know what To do because I don't know if I can stop these dreams and I don't talk to him because he was my ex best friends cousin and we don't get along and no we didn't break up because of her and no I didn't stop being her friend because we broke up. I haven't dated in awhile because it feels wrong dating someone I don't like while I like someone else And these dreams have also made me pretty sad and everytime I dream about him I feel alittle gloomy the whole day I hope this makes sense and was not to long
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 August 2010):
 I had similar things happen with an ex. I had been single for a while and she started creeping back into my thoughts and dreams. It started to bug me so I sat back and thought about it. I realized it was a closure issue. I broke it off with her, but she was a very domineering person. I had to cut all ties. We broke up, and she tried to get me back multiple time. I actually had friends hide me a few times because she was out looking for me. God she was evil, but I won't get into those details.
Anyway, once I realized this, it helped. What also helped was bumping into her one day. I hadn't planned it, it just happened. We had a good talk. It had been a few years since our breakup and we were both in completely different places in our lives. That allowed me to get the closure I needed. It opened up the door to her wanting to get back with me though, so I had to stamp that out real fast.
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (20 August 2010):
I understand how u feel I had similar experiences with a girl I kno. they say a dream is a wish from the heart whether it's because you need closure or maybe there's another chance for you him to be together again.
Maybe u should try contacting him again if it's what you truely want this could be the only way to stop the dreams. I hope this helps
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