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writes:Okay so here's the story. This girl is trying to make my life a living hell. She dated my ex bf and once she found out I was with him and he got stuff for me she acted really wierd. I met her on sunday at her sisters house who is in my grade (9th) when we had to work on a project. The girl is a senior and my ex is in 11th grade. At first things went okay until she found out I dated him. She then began saying how she could have him back whenever she wanted. I began to get worried, and soon enough when her bf dumped her she went for her ex..which was my bf. He left his stuff in my locker from the last day of school before thanksgiving break, well when I found out they were talking I threw it out on the floor. He basically shut me out of his life completely for her! I did nothing to this girl but she keeps telling her sister to tell me that hes always been hers no matter what and all this stuff. I havent said anything to ither one of them. I've acted like it dosent bother me. They constantly talk about me and it's really getting to me. I have no idea what to do:( Please any help!?? I would really appreciate it. Thank you:)
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reader, Teacake +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Gosh I feel bad for you because I know how this sort of ridiculous drama triangles create unnecessary pain.
Basically, most relationship problems are due to some sort of triangle. Other people messing things up between 2 people, willing or not willing on any side of the triangle.
In my case I was seeing this fellow across the street. Actually I'm still in love with him. He never was in love with me. First triangle was when ever we had a falling out, he would stand at the front steps of my apartment and heavily flirt with the woman who was an enemy of mine. She LOVED doing this and would always give a look and flip her hair when I walked by. I had a couple of nervous breakdowns from this.
I always acted like it didn't bother me. There was no escape. I never told the man about how horrible it was because that would give him more ammo!
Then his best friend found out he and I were sex partners. It wasn't a secret but he just never put 2 and 2 together.
Long story short. This creep is in the closet "in love" with my guy (they are best friends for years and my guy is in total denial about this creep!) Anyhow, creepo then moves into my building saying as a joke that he could now keep up with what was going on between me and my FWB.
This guy has caused me SO MUCH trouble!!!!!! And my guy believes this creep for some reason. He thinks that if there is a problem, I've done something to cause it! He is basically a in the closet gay stalker who has tried to come between me and my guy... and it worked!
As much as I tried to open my guys eyes to this, he got very defensive and it always backfired as if I was the one causing trouble! The list is so long what this guy has done, very creepy things that he does when no one is around. I tried to have the cops help, but that just made things worse!
Anyhow.... sometimes you just have to let things happen on their own until the truth comes out. I hope you're luckier than me. If your guy doesn't believe you, he isn't worth the time trying to redeem yourself to him.
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