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I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!

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Question - (17 April 2008) 19 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *roud mommy writes:

I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I have felt sick and my face is breaking out. Can you get pregnant with condoms and would I have signs this soon?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008):

lol.with such a small baby how on earth did you find time???Don't worry.I am sure you won't show this early.Wait for 40 days atleast before taking a pregnancy test.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008):

No darling you probably wouldn't get pregnancy symptoms this soon, but I must tell you that I know someone with babies 8 months apart (she got pregnant straight away and her 2nd baby was premature) so it's not impossible. So use a condom even if you're tempted to rely on the breast feeding preventing pregnancy myth unless you don't mind another baby, and don't use those condoms for 4 hours! Who's looking after the baby? You're lucky she sleeps for 4 hours!

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony aunthey, i suggest you get a test done in about 4 weeks

and learn something

its called

CONTRACEPTION

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A female reader, WiccanWonder United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2008):

WiccanWonder agony auntWhy did you guys think she was 10-12? It says she is 18-21...

Hmm

maybe it changed... I wonder...

[Moderator Note] Original post showed younger age range in error. It has since been corrected to 18-21 range by admin.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntDarling you are twenty years old???? Surely you should know by now that you should use condoms only once and not three or four times. I think you need education on contraception my dear xxxx.

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (18 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntStill stand by my original answer to this post...10-12....18-21...she still has NO idea of the birds and bee's......

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A female reader, Wisdom Australia +, writes (17 April 2008):

Wisdom agony auntOh thank god, I was having nighmares last night!!

Still think it is a good idea to go and have some type of professional help.

At the very least learn how you become pregnant and then....Dont. Not until you get your life on track.

I think that is prob just your body getting back to normal after having a baby, Try not to worry too much and relax give your body lots of time to go back to normal and don't rush things!

good luck

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntI too received a PM from ProudMommy, clarifying her age as being 20. All I can say is that I am so very relieved in hearing that.

I did think it was rather too far fetched for all this to be happening to a 10-12 year old.

PM..in answer to your question get a pregnancy test immediately and in future keep plenty of spare condoms to hand.

The feeling of nausea that you've been experiencing, and your face breaking out in spots ~ could be for some other reason, if it's worrying you, go and see your Doctor or a pharmasist.

Best of luck to you and please take care.

BigSis xXx

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A male reader, DearCupid United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

DearCupid agony auntBefore everyone gets hysterical I've corrected the DOB this user entered it incorrectly. When questions "seem" fake there is sometimes an innocent explanation.

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A female reader, Isabella1974 Ireland +, writes (17 April 2008):

Isabella1974 agony auntHI ALL, just received a private message from proud mummy, she says the age is a mistake and she is actually 20 year of age, but do not know how to change this on her original message. As i am new to the site, i dont know myself. I have told her to resubmit her question again.

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A female reader, Isabella1974 Ireland +, writes (17 April 2008):

Isabella1974 agony auntI do wonder is this a practical joke, although i do know a girl who was 12 when she got pregnant, but a second time....sweety...please say this is not true!! You can ge the morning after pill and this will stop you having another baby. You can get pregnant if the comdom burst of was not put on properly and it is to soon to tell. Stop having sex, you are to young, where are you parents??

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntthey should start sex education when your 5 or maybe your mother should have told you about safe sex while you were still in her womb this has to be a joke

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntTHIS IS A SICK HOAX SURELY.......... If not you need a damn good spanking young lady.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntMy sentiments exactly Smiffy.

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (17 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntCant really be bothered to respond.....BUT if it is a true story, which I doubt, relating to the other post by this BABY....I feel so sorry for you.....11 years out of your mothers womb...still a baby and you have one of your own...very sad....

Sorry...but obviously you havent spent much time in education etc....

My 9yr old daughter has the basic knowledge.....

Come on DearCupid / moderator.....these sort of questions shouldnt appear...especially when there is another posted by the same "girl"....and having sex with a policeman to be....

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntListen sweetheart, if this is a true story ~ then you need serious help, we can advise to a certain degree, but we cannot physically help, because that's what you need, an adult ~ close by, to guide you and to help you and your baby through life, especially after reading the attached link below.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-on-house-arrest-with-a-2mth-old.html

BigSis xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

There is no way you are 10! Tell us the truth. If you are in fear of being pregnant then off to the doctors and you may be on time for the morning after pill, if not then explain to your doctor what you have told us and he will advice on the best action.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntThat was so very well said Wisdom.

Proud Mommy? 10 yrs old?...for Pete's sake! I feel sick! How does one child take responsibilty for another? It's so sad.

This just has to be a hoax the same as the other thread, It's just is too unbelieveable to be true, isn't it?

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A female reader, Wisdom Australia +, writes (17 April 2008):

Wisdom agony auntI want to cry....... YOU ARE A BABY!!!! You just had one! is there no hope?? What is going on in America where this is acceptable?

The simple answer is yes. You are only supposed to use a condom ONCE!!!! Once you have used it chuck it away. If you used it only once and he ejaculated into the condom then you should be fine....Why do you not know this?.... Becuase you are a child. STOP HAVING SEX UNTIL YOU AT LEAST KNOW HOW AND WHY YOU GET PREGNANT!!!!! Why the hell are you having children now! Where are your parents? Please tell me someone is looking after you?? How old is this man?

I think my darling you need some professional help. Your only going to be 20 when that child is 10. To you that may seem old but its not.

Please please please stop and get some help

Good luck

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