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writes:Occasionally, a girl I know will call me to watch a movie at her house. I'm not really sure what her intentions are. Also, I'm not sure if she wants me to make a move on her or not. It seems like she might like me but she doesn't really sit very close to me.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Hi,
that sounds a bit rude, it's almost as though she is using you as a second choice option.
You are within your rights to find out if she is interested as at the moment the relationship is all one way.
It's best to get these things out in the open as there is no point in maintaining the premise of a friendship if you would prefer a proper relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): If that's the case then I have no idea if she likes you or not. The only way to find out is to maybe sit close to her next time. If she moves away or looks uncomfortable, I wouldn't make a move on her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have called her quite a few times but she never answers or calls me back. We have gone out to eat a few times. But, the last two times have been watching movies. It seems like we only actually hang out when she makes the plans.
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (17 April 2008):
 so how long has this been going on for because if its been happening for awhile then you need to make a move if she still invites you over maybe thats why she keeps on inviting you over is to make a move so the next time she asks you to come over make a move look at what she wears because if she wears something that is hugging her curves or that is sexy then defintly make a move she wouldnt wear that type of clothes just to sit in her house MAKE A MOVE hope it helps ya
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (17 April 2008):
Well I wouldnt jump all over her if I was you. But you can at least see if she is interested in you by asking her out somewhere yourself. At the moment she is doing all the work. Hint that it will be a date, if she is not interested then you will know soon enough.
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