I havent heard from my boyfriend in a week, what should I do?

A female age 51-59, *raceylovesur writes:

ive been with my boyfriend for a year, its been a haerd year and i really do love him!! i have 3 children the youngest being 13!! he has a daughter of 11, who visits him every other weekend. for the last year i have gone to flat every weekend leaving my son with my parents, or at friends, my son has always been invited with me , but refuses to go and will not get along with my boyfriend, he says hes no good for me! my boyfriend promises me things on a regular basis and never delivers! if i cant get to his he makes no attempt to come to mine, and we can never arrange anything, because he cant make a commitment to anything!! recently he has blamed not seeing me in the week on work, but has made friends with a new couple and can make the time for then!! a few weeks back, he introduced them to me, i dont no what happened, but i couldnt get along with the girl, and i ended up getting very drunk and shouting at her!i do not remeber what happened,i felt really bad the next day and sincerly appoliged!! me and my boyfriend have been arguing alot i only want the simple things like being able to cook him tea, and him come to mine just to make things easier, i do everything i can for his daughter, and just think if he was at mine my son would see us together!! he txtd me 4 weeks ago after the argument with the girl, and told me he could not give me what i wanted!! he then rang me 3 weeks later, and we talked, i am so weary of his word and belive actions speak louder than words, i have a massive barrier around me, it was my birthday the next day, i invited him to my house as he wanted to take me out, but i wanted to be with my children, he came!! i didnt want him to stay as the children neva wanted him to, but he drank and couldnt drive, he said he felt like i didnt want him there, i did but it was almost like i wanted proof of all his promises he was making!! i never had sex with him i told i wanted to have respect for myself!! this was a week ago, havent heard from him since,what do i do?

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