Is he trying to get me pregnant again?
Q. My partner and have an 11 month old and have had a few financial difficulties over the last year. We both want more kids (I'm thinking 2, he wants 3) later on when I'm finished with school, financially caught up, and have a ring on my finger ...
A. 30 July 2009: "I've woken up to him having sex with me 4 times now" Whoa! It sounds to me like he's ambushing you with sex. Unless he used to do that habitually prior to the current situation, I would definitely agree that he's trying to get you pregnant. ... (read in full...)
I can't sleep with her because of what he did to me
Q. I've been in a bad relationship (he would push me and force me to do thing i didnt want to do) i got out of it 1 year ago and since then i have got a new partner and she is great but she want to sleep together i try and make up excuses but she is ...
A. 28 July 2009: First of all, you are a brave and amazing person! Congrats for getting out of a bad relationship. Regarding your girlfriend, I think you should ask her, in a serious tone: "If I don't sleep with you, will you break up with me?" If she answers,... (read in full...)
Does my Piano teacher like me?
Q. I'm 16 and my piano teacher is 28 and I've been noticing a lot of weird things that he does around me and doesn't do around his other female students and I am really confused. Does he like me? (I know dating him would be dangerous and I don't want ...
A. 28 July 2009: I'm glad you are mature enough to a) not jump to conclusions and b) realize the possibly dangerous situation you are in. Yes, I do think he is interested in you. I also agree that it is inappropriate, because of your professional relationship and... (read in full...)
I've met a great man, but I suffer from uncontrollable flatulence. How do I tell him? Or should I just pass up the chance?
Q. I'm 21 and have been a sufferer of uncontrollable flatulence for five years now. It has crushed me many times over for the past few years. For a while, I was ok being single. I could imagine myself spending the rest of my life alone. But recently...
A. 28 July 2009: Boy, that's a hard one. I'm so sorry for your predicament, sweetie. I have a non-visible medical injury that always makes me look like a hypochondriac, so I *somewhat* know how you're feeling. I think you should go on a second date with him. ... (read in full...)
I have three options in asking her out: What one's best?
Q. hi ive just started the sumer holidays and there is this girl in a lot of my classes who is pretty and i like that added me on facebook. we were talking on comments and i THINK that we are flirting. she comments on my status a lot and i comment on ...
A. 28 July 2009: Personally, I see nothing wrong with asking her out via Facebook, if that is the way you two are used to conversing. (Obviously, use a private message.) My best friend asked her boyfriend out for the first time on AIM. I don't suggest you wait... (read in full...)
I'm married but lonely! What should I do?
Q. I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to ...
A. 22 July 2009: How long has this been going on? Is he going through a rough patch at work? Are you more successful (or seemingly more successful) than he is? It could be he's shut you out because talking to you makes him feel like a failure in contrast. He may ... (read in full...)
I pay for everything myself, why doesn't my husband ever treat me?
Q. I hope you can help. I really need to know if I am being practical. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. When we were dating, I saw a successful, hard-working man. I did not marry him for money, I make my own. But I admired his work ...
A. 22 July 2009: I think what made her more 'special' was simply that she wasn't you! A big reason your husband probably fell for you was because you were not the dependent burden on him that his ex-wife was. A good way to approach this would be to let him know ... (read in full...)
My friends get hit on, I don't?
Q. I am an attractive, quiet type and I am Indie...I have wild curly and can not stand to dress provocative or in loud colors. I do not have that Charlie Angel big hair nor own a pair of Audrey Hepburn (I think thats spelled corrrectly) glasses. N...
A. 22 July 2009: My best friend complains about getting whistled at, honked at, stared at, come on to all the time, *none* of which has *ever* happened to me, so I totally understand your pain. Like someone else said, physical confidence and flirty body lang... (read in full...)
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