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writes: I have been seeing and sleeping with a guy that I went to college with and recently met up with after a few years. We hit it off right away and have had so much fun together the last 3 months. He told me a thousand times that he was single. I happened upon something that gave me the impression that he has a long distance girlfriend. I asked him and he said that he is just "dating" and not interested in a boyfriend/girlfriend situation with anyone (hitting the really busy season in his work)....he swears that he is not serious with anyone. I know deep in my heart that she is his girlfriend......but he is so sweet to me and does wonderful things for me. I don't trust his word.......do I say something to her? I'm lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): DO NOT under any circumstance write to or call this woman you think might be his girlfriend! You have no proof either way that she is, or is not, a girlfriend.How is it that you "happened on something"? Did you read his email, or listen in on a phone call, or did a mutual friend tell you about this? If you did read his email, or see a letter he wrote, then there is a question as to whether HE can trust YOU, you know!You have asked him, and he gave you an answer. Either you accept what he told you and assume he was telling the truth, or you don't. If you "don't trust his word" having discussed it with him, you have the choice to continue on with someone you think lied to you, or - break off the relationship.Good luck!
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