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writes:Honest question, i'm going out tomorrow but I can't wear eye makeup with an infection I have at the moment. I've never been clubbing without makeup and I worry guys will think I look ugly without it, I don't know whether to go out and just have a good time and forget that I have none on. But then I know that in the back of my mind, that I wont have any makeup on and look rough without it.. which may ruin me having fun.I have my days where I look fine without and sure girls go out without makeup, my sister does! But she is extremely stunning without any, that i'm so jealous! I don't know what to do, should I go out? Or just stay in... and how can i accept that i'm not wearing makeup and just have a good time!!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2011): True beauty comes from confidence, and if you can't be confident without makeup, then don't, you will just make yourself miserable with self doubt.
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (16 December 2011):
 How about this: if you really want to wear makeup, you still can do your foundation, contouring and highlighting your face, blush and instead of strong eye-makeup, you could do a great colorful lipstick! Red is always a classic, so with a nude eyes, all the attention will go to your lips. Throw on a sexy outfit and a hot pair of heels, and no one will care about the lack of eye-makeup.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (15 December 2011):
 If your eye infection is viral conjunctivitis stay home. If your not contagious Think of it as an experiment. Have fun, it's only one night.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (15 December 2011):
I'd agree that guys (at least the mature ones) like girls to look more natural, as in not so much makeup and product all over themselves. I'm personally turned off when a girl approaches me with a shotgun of makeup everywhere.
Again, that's my personal opinion, but most guys I've talked to seem to agree with me.
I say go clubbing and have a great time! If you're having fun and laughing, guys will be more attracted to your energy than some fake substance on your face.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 Guy really do not know much of a difference, unless they are gay. Really. Most guys wouldn't be able to tell, if all you wear is mascara for example, and some light eye shadow. Of course if you pain yourself heavy with makeup in vivid colours everyone can see the makeup, although not see the PERSON. And most guys do prefer to see the person.
Make up is only there to enhance the beauty you already have, not make you look fake. And for guys, well most of them like I said really can't tell much of a difference. They can see that perhaps you look slightly different, but most of them can't pin point to exactly what the difference is with or without makeup. And in my experience, most guys do prefer a naturally looking girl.
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 I'm sure you look fine without make up :) you could make sure that your hair is done nicer than usual and wear an outfit you know you look good in with some nice jewellery to make you feel more confident? You could also maybe wear some lipstick if your face feels too bare?
Just go out and have a good time~ guys would rather see a girl enjoying herself rather than a girl always fussing over her make up ^_^
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reader, Lolly_Poll +, writes (15 December 2011):
What would you do, if you couldn't find your favourite pair of heels? Would you stay in, and not go out, or find something else to wear? The way I see it, is make-up is an accessory like any other. If you can't wear eye make-up, focus on your hair, or wear an extra sparkly dress. Confidence is the most attractive trait in anyone, so you should go out and enjoy yourself. Very sure you'll look amazing :)
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