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30-35,
*heonirvana
writes:I love my girlfriend. Every time we kiss, she turns me on. But when we touch each other, it feels great, but I can't get turned on. I might just be really nervous, so I'm really worried about what will happen if and when we decide to have sex.Please help!Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (5 July 2007):
 i can't really answer this question because you haven't told me what kind of touching your talking about. but what i would say is you need to relax and find the spot that does turn you on so that when she does touch you it would Definitely turn you on.
if possible try and right back and give me what the full problem is but if you can't goodluck
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reader, sexi  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Hi, your mind is probably working overtime.You are probably assuming that if you start touching then it would lead to sex, something you are obviously not ready to do. just take things one step at a time.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): it will be your nerves. if your getting to that stage in your relationship and it is your first time it is only natural. if your not ready tell your girlfriend, i'm sure she would understand after all she'll be going through the same thing. sometimes it helps to talk about these things first with your partner after all if you ready to have sex then you should be able to talk about it. well good luck and remember dont worry it will be special no matter what.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 I don't think I can answer that. But, what do you mean when you say "touch"? Some definitions of it should turn you on, indeed.
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