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I found a girl's hair on a cup in my BF's house. Do I have a right to doubt?

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Question - (20 January 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i was over my boyfriend's place , and i found a girl's hair attached or clinging to one of the cups on the table , it got attached with some juice , because it was left for a day or two, my boy friend previously told me that he had friends over before and there were no girls; but when i asked him what is this hair he was like may be it's yours . but my hair is pretty long and that hair was short and at the same time i know that none of his guy friends have long hair. yet again i found it very illogicale to believe that my hair fell and acciedently and got stuck to a cup. what do you think ? do i have the right to doubt???

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A male reader, lakers_lover09 United States +, writes (21 January 2010):

maybe you dont have a right to doubt YET. like the other posters sayd..there is a million places it could have come from. BUT we have all been there. its natural so dont feel like your're being overly obbsessive. Its natural. Just dont go looking for trouble..because if you have to search for it..its simply not there.

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A female reader, monkiegurl United States +, writes (20 January 2010):

you are thinking too much into it. Honestly why isnt it when girls (and or guys sometimes) fine the smallest things of another sex on or around their boyfrien or girlfriend and what to jump to thinking and accusing oh yah i know he's seeing someone else....

it's possible that it is yours and or fell off one of his friends and got stuck there. let it be until you really find something like female jewlery or panties and a bra etc. until than its a mysterys one strand piece of hair... No need to trip... you'll be okkay.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010):

Its sounds like you're over reacting dear - it could have been a friend/neighbour/relative's hair. Good luck anyhow...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010):

yea we had a fight beofre his friends came ,,, about other girls coming i didn't now them and i wasn't coming either..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010):

How do you know it is a female hair??? Men have long hair too...plus, you found it on a cup, not in his bed! You are being very paranoid, or not telling us the whole story...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010):

It could have been stuck on one of his friends when they came over? Do an of them have any girlfriends with that type of hair? Also: some parts of your hair is shorter than the others, hairs break off too, so unless you see the hairsack of that hair you found it is for sure not the entire length if it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2010):

One hair? I don't think you need to worry. Has he given you any other reason to doubt him at all?

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