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Our wild sex life has gone stale! How can we keep it hot?

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Question - (20 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Any ideas on keeping sex exciting?

Me and the better half have hit a bit of a brick wall, we started fast and now have no where to go

When we met my other half had not had sex for 3 years and I was just out of a marriage where I hated having sex, so as you can imagine we were at it like rabbits for the first few years

we have done normal, outdoor, anal, watersports, fantasty, role play, car, porno watching, phone sex, tied up, bondage,

I am not into 3 somes or group sex so I kind of have hit a brick wall?

even any new roles playing would be good?

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (21 January 2010):

When sex gets stale it often means you are missing out on intimacy and passionate love making. You don't have to be a circus acrobat to have good sex. Sometimes even old missionary can be fantastic if you take the time to slow things down, make it intense and erotic by what you feel for each other. So stop the sex and try to make love instead.

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (20 January 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntI haven't tried most of the things on you "sex list" and me and my wife have a wonderful, exciting, and pleasurable sex life. As corney as it sounds, I just love making love to her. Though sex is a very important part of any relationship, there is more to it than just sex.

Work on loving each others company, and I bet the sex will improve without adding any fantisies in your tool box.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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