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writes:i have two friends, a girl and a guy. i fell in love with the girl years ago, recently i told her how i felt but she only wants to stay friends. i've suspected the two friends had been together before we were due to go travelling (via an accidental text)they denied it. i still went travelling but eight weeks after they left and moved in with them, (told them previously i didn't want to live with a couple, the guy knew how i felt about her) while i was living with them the guy was almost always in a bad mood didn't get an expanation about this. he persuaded me to go travelling without the girl, it lasted a couple of weeks until we fell out, no real reason given there either. we are all back home now, the guy and i made up but are barely friends. i consider the girl to be my best friend but if she slept with him while we were living together i couldn't forgive it and would probably end the friendshipwhat should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): sounds very logical when you put it that way,still she would have knowingly gone behind my back if she was with him while we lived together.needless to say i'd have nothing to do with the guy if i what i think is true but i'll never know if she doesn't tell me.and i wonder why he fell out with her then me after i showed up
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 January 2010):
She's your friend, not your girlfriend. There's nothing to forgive because she hasn't cheated on you and made her feelings clear. The truth is something probably did happen. But why are you going to break up this friendship when she hasn't done anything wrong?
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