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41-50,
*ay1209
writes:My girlfriend finished our relationship on sunday and i am heart broken, i opened up to her so much and let down all my guards. i felt used and hurt because i gave her my all. we argue all the time because she has a short temper and no matter what i do or say i am never right. she said im a special person and that she cant keep seeing me down and upset and that she is doing it for the both of us, what i dont understand is that she still calls me everyday!!! it hurts talking to her but because its been a week i still feel we have a chance. the only thing is, when i bring up about working things out she goes mad at me and starts saying, " for f*** sake i told you how i feel and how i want things, now do you really want me to stop talking to you for good. i really dont know what to do. i feel deep down she wants to be with me but its just i act insecure around her but thats only because she has made me that way. i was never like that before and i feel i have lost the real me. what do i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Honey, I totally understand how you feel. I put my all in the father of my child and I get burned. But I left for good reasons.
I know it's hard for you right now, unfortunately, she "ain't" the one for you. Seems as if she's leading you on just in case she doesn't find someone else.
You definitely don't need the verbal abuse from her. You can do bad all by yourself.
It's so funny how we try to keep the ones we don't need in our lives rather than the ones we do need.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 She is giving you false hope by continuing to talk to you which is very cruel, you say you never used to be like the way you are now so tell me why do you want to be with someone that has done this to you?
Move on babe you will find someone that treats you as you deserve to be treated just tell her that you would prefer if she did not call you all the time as you think you should both try to move on.
Take care.xx. feel free to get in contact if you need to chat.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 I feel your girlfriend is using you.
She did not finish your relationship.
At the moment she is grooming you - I know this type of girl.
To dump her is not possible for you now she will not "get it".
First, don't focus on your issues as she will keep using you.
Second, don't waste time building values turn out to be sham.
You need meet people to build relationship with a new person.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 Dude, what I am about to write may sound like a commercial for a product, but I am offering you this for free, just so you know. I am an author of a book entitled "I'm a man, that's my job". I can offer you a FREE preview of the WHOLE BOOK (all 278 pages). Go to lulu.com, do a search under my name "Frank B Kermit". Once you see the book listed, click on it, and then click the link that says "PREVIEW This Book". You will be able to read it for free without buying it.
It is about finding yourself as a man. The first 3 chapters will help you. The last two chpater are about becoming a seducer, but I do not think that part applies here yet.
Good Luck.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 June 2007):
 You had some good times together but from what you write, she certainly doesn't seem right for you, you deserve so much better. She has absolutely no respect for you and is treating you like a doormat.
Have a look at the link below, it will help you to take a good look at yourself and what you want from life and help you take the necessary steps to get on your feet again and become a much stronger person.
http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Yourself
Don't try and be the way other people WANT you to be. There are related links below this one which might also be of help.
Good luck!
Eve
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