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writes:ok so there's this guy i have been talking to. And he had just recently stopped talking to an ex girlfriend of 2 years. we met and there was an instant connection we were talking for about 7 months until he just all of a sudden just leaves me to get back with his ex. He doesn't call or anything and he can never give me a reason. i don't understand why he would just drop me without giving me a reason. and when i ask him if he would ever get back wit his ex he said "no". could anyone help me and tell me why he would just talk to me for this long and then drop me like i never existed. I'm hurting really bad inside becuase i was beginning to love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u soo.much 4 helpn me..itz been so hard..but day by day i am trying to get over it..hopefully i will find someone who will treat me like ima queen one day..and luckily i wasnt in full blown luv..cuz i culd barely handle dz situation..THANKZ.!
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 This action obviously shows you his true colours and perhaps you were lucky to get out of it while you were in the 'beginning' phase of love rather than full blown.
Maybe he never had any intentions of getting back with his ex and suddenly decided he wanted to.
If he won't tell you why he went back to her and just dropped you - there's not much you can do about that. But to be honest, if he's treated you that way why do you even want anything to do with him? He's obviously not the person you thought he was so why bother with him? No one deserves anyone who is going to treat them this badly. You deserve someone amazing so i suggest the good old fashioned 'forget about him' routine. Find someone better who will treat you right. If he didn't have the sense to stick with you, he won't have sense enough to provide reason enough as to why he got back with an ex.
Please don't obsess about his reasoning - he obviously isn't very bright if he acted this way. I know it's hard but try to let it go and move on, there's no way to get inside his head and pull apart his thoughts. I suggest moving on. Some guys really suck - these men should be forgotten.
Best of luck hun,
Miss Kin.
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