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writes:HELLLPPP!!so im in a relationship with this boy ive been seeig for 7 mnths now and a new boy who is older than i im 16 nerly 17 this new man should i say is 23 asks me if i like him and i cudnt lie i sed yes i do he sed good i like you wht do u wnt to do about it.. i dont want to loose my bf but he keeps asking me to meet up with him he has a other hals aswell n me n her dont get on he says to me none of them have to no it will be our little secret n all tht crap...but i dont no wht im supposed to do a few days hell be all cumon meet me meet me then the next hes quiet n doesnt tlk to me hell say hi like normal like nothing has happened n then bk to flirty again im afrai i might loose my bf because i have hard truble keeping secrets from him even though me n this new man hasnt done any thing besides a little flirting from him i never keep any thing from my bf!!!What am i gonna do is this 23 yo messing with me or is it sum thing real as he wnt stop asking me to sleep with him n meet him all time n take wlks with him.and should i tell my bf?xxxxhelppp
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reader, unsure heart  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 This guy clearly only wants one thing, to get into your pants and get right back out, take my advise I was in a realtionship with a guy for 2 years I thought he was the one but kept pussing me to sleep with him, I was a virgin at that time and just wasn't ready but I loved him and did it, but after he got me he left me and I coulnd't understand why but found out i wasn't the only girl he was seeing or active with I thought he was the real thing but guys like that only wants the sleeping part then your not good enough anymore. Don't waste your time with this guy, and for your boyfriend tell him that this guy won't leave you alone, honosty is the most important thing in a relationship.
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reader, terrifenby +, writes (7 February 2008):
 the fact that he is asking for sex all the time and wanted to keep it a secret that sounds like he is trying to manipulate you! you should sit down and think about what you really want whether you want to be with your bf or not! but please dont see the older one!if he liked you he wouldn't be going on about sex all the time, he would enjoy spending time with you!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 That's what your 23 year old is interested in, sex with a young one and that's it. You can tell whenever someone says "it's our little secret" you know it's a bad place to go.
I don't think, even if you didn't have a boyfriend that this would be a good person to be around. He's trying to take advantage of you, not have anything real. Be careful and think about ending communication with him.
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