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*ove hurts!!
writes:so I had sex for the second time! and and this time it was with someone I REALLY care about! well once agian it ended badly!this kid is mormon, hes the shy type but not with me!hes very cute! hes kinda a dork! which is what I LOVE most about him! well anyways! it was his FIRST time,, and and I PROMISED myy self I would be with him after that night! cause of what happend to me in my past! I got used for sex myy first time! and and I wanted him to have the chance to be with that person he lost it to! well we did it and and it was ammaziing! at that moment I fell in love ALL over agian just with a guyy that cared about me too! well after that night I got ALL confused and and got back with myy ex! and and then after 3 or 2 months I dumped him cause he wasnt the right one for me! the other guyy was! so then me and the virginity losser started talkin more and and more! and and he told my bestfriend he "likes myy ALOT!" so one night we hung out agian! It was AMMAZZING once agian! but we didnt do it! while we where hanging out I told him "I like him ALOT and and told him PLEASE dont hurt me!" he said"I like you so much and and I wont hurt you blah blah blah!"then two days goes byy and and hes telling his popular guyy friends he likes me and and ALL this stuff! =]then I notice one of myy oldest friends on his top myspace! me and and this girl have known eachother sence 3rd grade! so I wasnt missing out on a chance to see if theyy had something so I asked and and she said yes! and and my bestie texted the boyy and and said a bunch of stuff like you are playing both of the girls! and and he said dont talk to me anymore to my bestie! so I was like whatever I will get over this! and and at the time I havent even yet told my bestie I had sex with him and and so a week in a half goes by and and I start BALLING and and I call her and and tell her! shes SOOO pist that he would DO all of this after we had had sex! he knows myy past so I DONT get whyy he'd hurt me! noww hes going out with that girl and and Idk what to do!I wrote him on myspace sayying"wow I cant believe you would do ALL this! well have funn with yurr girlfriend I hope she can fullfill ALL yurr needs cause Im NEVERR doing it agian!" Of course he NEVER wrote back! then 2 more weeks go by havent yet got him of myy mind and and his bestie which Is myyy bestie hes like myy brother! well he told me I know he likes you hes just being stuid blah blahh! so I decide to write him and and tell him how I feel cause hes a VERRRRRYY sensitive guyy! so heres the message! I need help to see If it was the RIGHT thing to do! "???! I think im in love with you! and and you know that whole thing with ????? happend then what happend with me and and you made me forget about him! and and Im NOT going to lie I hate that yurr with ????????! It KILLS me to see you with someone else! I THOUGHT I could handle it but I CANT! 2007 summer when we hung out,, me,, you ???????,,?????,, I miss thoughs dayys and and when I look back it makes me sad! and and it sucks! I miss you ???! you'er ALL I think about these dayys! just remember I was yurrr FIRST ???! and and NO ONE will CAN everrrr care about you has much has I do! I thought you where different from ALL the other guyys thats whyy I liked you SOOO much but then that whole thing with that girl made me think i was wrong, so just tell me now if you DONT want anything to do with me and and I wont talk to you anymore! cause I need to know now before I FALL ALL the wayy!!!!!!!!!!!!"so If he doesnt write back what does it mean! I cant move on cause I love him! and and helped me realize there can be a fairytell ending!
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reader, Variety  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 If he doesn't write back then he is not worth thinking about. It is hard but you'll get over him in time. I would sit back now and wait for something to happen. If you keep messaging him it is inappropriate seeing as he has a girlfriend. If he splits up with her and then says he likes you then the ball is in your court. Remember he hasn't been honest to you in the past. If you want to talk more message me. x
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reader, jamey_37 +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Ok.. being a mormon myself... I'd really like to answer this one.. But the question is really all over the place and was hard for me to follow... If you wanna message me and clarify, please, please do.
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