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I don't want to be gay. My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other. How do I stop feeling this way?

Q.   I am 20 years old, My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other, we were at first just trying then it turned into anytime we saw each other. we couldn't stop now I cant even get hard looking at girls. I realize I am probably gay, but...

A.   28 October 2011: it's gonna be okay. for a while i was bi-curious and it made me panic. i was terrified about what consequences it could have on my life. but now i have accepted that i'm bi and it really hasn't changed much. it's a part of who i am, but it doesn't ... (read in full...)

Online dating - no-one replies to my messages! How do I make girls interested in me?

Q.   I have been using dating sites for quite some time now but no one seems to be interested replying me. I might not have look of Tom Cruise but I am not that bad either. So What I need to do to make girls interested in me and finally get a ...

A.   28 October 2011: i'd give this advice to anyone in ur situation: one thing to avoid is advertising yourself with only the good things. when guys say on their profiles or in chats that they are sexy, or have nice abs or a six pack, or stuff like that, it comes off ... (read in full...)

How do you tell your boyfriend you were a text sex maniac?

Q.   I,ve decided to come clean with my boyfriend. we're dating nearly four months and he deserves to know the truth as He told me all his secets. I used 2 be a sex text maniac. I used to text guys off the internet and we'd send each other pictures I,ve ...

A.   28 October 2011: it's highly unlikely u'll run into one of them.... (read in full...)

Sometimes I feel like I'm never going to have a girlfriend!

Q.   I'm very nice, mature, really sweet, really cool, smart, funny, strong, and tough. I have the confidence to ask out a girl. Do you think I'm likable to girls? I never had a girlfriend before and sometimes I feel like need one. I always wanted to...

A.   28 October 2011: if i knew you i'd probably really like you.... (read in full...)

Our son who has Asperger's syndrome is depressed because he thinks he's gay. How can we help?

Q.   For the past 2 weeks, our 23-year-old son, Simon* who has Asperger's syndrome has been acting differently - showing signs of angst/depression, smoking and drinking [soft drinks] to excess and putting on weight. We weren't sure why and asked him on...

A.   25 October 2011: That's tough. I think the main thing he needs is support and to know that who he is is acceptable and fine. This could be difficult if that's not the message where you live. If possible, I think it would be nice for him to spend time talking to or ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents that I am bi-curious? They have never known about my relationship with this bi-girl

Q.   A semi-quick question for anybody willing to answer; I don't know if this love is true blue? I'm going to have to explain this better for you to be able to analyze, so...I am head over heels for my best friend. The feelings are mutual for her, ...

A.   25 October 2011: i'm in sort of a similar situation, except i'm almost positive i'm bi. i'm around your age, and i'm not planning on telling my parents about my sexuality for a few more years, because i really just want to explore my sexuality right now and i'm also ... (read in full...)

She has awakened something inside of me... how do I get to know her better?

Q.   When my band played at the local pub, my mother's best friend from high school decided to come along because the gig took place on my birthday. Ive known thier family for as long as i can remember, but i hadn't seen them in a long time. So when they ...

A.   25 October 2011: aww, i know that feeling. that's a hard question to answer. if she expresses any interest in you, try to arrange a time to hang out in person, so that you will get a feel for what it's like to have a real, long, in-person convo with her.... (read in full...)

I am about to start a mixed-sex school. Please give me some tips on talking to girls

Q.   Hi im 13 years old and just after going to secondary school from an all boys school but ive never talked to a girl before and get nervous when around them and icant even talk to them please give advice on how to talk to a girl...

A.   25 October 2011: i'm around your age too. really all you've got to do is be yourself. talking to girls shouldn't be too different from talking to boys. just remember to be courteous and nice. if you are funny or sexy those are pluses. If you can just hold a ... (read in full...)

Can a romantic gay-straight relationship work?

Q.   So, I am 20 and gay and my best friend is 21 and straight. We started chillin in high school and never thought much of it but we spent almost every day together and as a result we have fallen in love with eachother. At first I thought I just had a ...

A.   25 October 2011: it sounds like he could be bi. obviously the way he feels about women is different from the way he feels about men, but i'm bi and it's the same way for me. you two sound like you could be cute together, but only if he lets you into his life ... (read in full...)

Why? I care so much for others. Yet I am the one being Cyber Bullied. Help me rise above this please?

Q.   I finally thought I was okay, and didnt need to rely on strangers over the internet to help me through my life.. Guess I was wrong.. I havent been upset lately but now its all coming back. about a month ago, I went to a party and i regret it, but ...

A.   25 October 2011: Please don't give up. It's awful that you are being hurt by these people, but it won't be the end of the world. If you can find new people to hang out with who you feel comfortable with, I think you'll feel safer. Even if it's just that teacher, ... (read in full...)

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