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writes: One of my guy friends just say me for the first time in 7 months. I gave him my number before school ended cuz we graducated this past june. He never called me.Well tonite at work he came up to me and we talked and stuff and hugged. It was great but seeing him just made all my feelings for him come back. Before he left he said that he would give me a call and he said i think i still have your number and i said are you sure? and he said yea im pretty sure i have it if not ill come back and ask you for it.Anyways around 8ish tonite i got a phone call from him i was so surprised. We talked for about 2 hours and a half. He asked me to the movies this friday nite with him and his buddy. I dont have a problem with going to the movies with them the problem is that his buddy who is going to the movies with him and i (if i go) likes me. Him and i had a course at our local college during the summer and he developed a crush on me. My question is even tho i like my guy friend should i go to the movies with him and his buddy who likes me? I think it would feel ackward. I dont know what to do....................
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Maybe try explaining to the guy about your situation. If you really want to go to the movies with this guy then you'll have to explain and tell him now before he asks his buddy if he wants to come. Tell him exactly what you've just said now so that he knows what the situation is.
Don't put yourself in an awkward position.
Or if you don't want to explain the situation then maybe you could tell him that you want it to be just you and him with no third wheel. I'm sure he'll understand that.
Or make up an excuse as to why you can't go. Say something came up, like...your gran wanted you to do something for her? Make it believable, and then arrange to go out another time.
Or if you don't want to do that either then you're just gonna have to go with both of them and deal with the awkwardness.
I hope you come to a decision soon when you get some more responses. Good luck.
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