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writes: I dont know why my husband doesnt care for me. Even when I love him so much.. He doesnt want to help me. He doesnt see my love either. Some times i Feel he is too tied up with his work.. And thats the reason a NO from him for everything.. But Even when he is free.. Its the same situation. He just doesnt have time for me. There has been fights several fights. Absuses. Sometimes I feel that it wud have been best if I never married.. So insenstive.. He sometimes blankly refuses.. Just because I asked him some things. I too am very busy with my work and housework. It gives us less time together. And even if we have time.. He doesnt want to spend it with me. Few suggested us to visit to a counsellor.. But he wont come. No matter what wrong he does to me.. he will never say sorry.. The moment I decide not to say sorry and stop going back to him our relationship is over.. He is too insensitive towards me..I dont know what to do. I dont know if anyone is gonna read this.. I just wanted to write it down.. Spk out.. Each day its becoming more and more difficult. Reply to this Question
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
Did you do something to make him act this way? Are you the clingy, whiny, needy, demanding type? If you are, then you probably need to become more independent of the guy, don't rely on him for your happiness. But if you are none of the above, you could confide in an older family member.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Oh hun, you need to sit your man down and tell him exactly how you feel and that as a couple you want to go to counselling to sort it out. If he shows no interest in going to counselling with you, then sorry to say, you need to pack you bags and leave and dont go back to him no matter how he cries and begs..
You sound very unhappy and I urge you not to leave this matter but do something about it NOW. It will hurt like crazy to leave him but there are lots of good men out there who would treat you with love and respect.
Honeygirl
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
You need to stop this now. It doesn't matter ho0w much you love him, he just doesn't seem to care about you. Sit down with him and tell him that he either has to come to counseeling with you, or you will have to leave. And mean it. If he doesn't, then you know he doesn't love you enough and you need to get away from him now. Please don't waste your time with a man who doesn't care.
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