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male
age
36-40,
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writes:I like this girl who is a senior in high school and I'm attending University of South Florida. The age difference is less than two years, so it's not too bad. In May she will be going off to her college, either on the other coast or up north at FSU, wherever she decides to go it will be at least three hours away. On top of that, I'm pre-med and when/if I go to medical school, it will be much much farther away than a few hours. Knowing that we both like each other, my question is, should we get together, even if our futures dont coeinside with each other? Thank you for your advice
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reader, cd206  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Maybe you're worrying too much about the future. Live for now and worry about tomorrow when it comes. You don't even know if the relationship would survive until she finishes high school so it would seem to me that you're worrying about things before they happen. Even in the worse case scenario, if everything works out between you and then you go to uni on opposite coasts, if it's meant to be your relationship will survive it and if that seems like too much of an effort then maybe it's not meant to be.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Depends how much you both like each other, if you both think you will be able to trust each other and handle that amount of difference for the next few years or more then go for it, alot of long distance relationships work but on the same hand you see an awful lot of people posting their problems about long distance on here.
Take care.xx.
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