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*pringluv2
writes: I have been seeing this guy for a week now and we have been very affectionate, we laugh and get along great. We told each other we like one another and it seems were on the same page. I haven't seen him for a couple days n when he told me he would come he ended up staying with his boys. I feel mad because I like being with him and spending time. He said he misses me but I don't believe him. Should I be mad or stop calling? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (23 March 2010):
Caring guy nailed it in one. Give him some room to breathe, it doesn't mean that he doesn't miss you or isn't keen on you so don't take it personally. If you start getting angry at him for doing things like seeing his mates, especially after only dating for a week, then you're going to push him away.
Best of luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 March 2010):
You've only been seeing him a week. Slow down. If you do too much too fast, you'll push him away. Slow down a bit and when you are together, make sure it's quality time together. But don't move too far too fast. You don't want to come across as clingy.
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