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writes:Ive been dating a guy for 7 months now, and we make each other happy. About a month ago I found out he was flirting with one of his co-workers and we've been arguing more than usual since then. Lately ive been having dreams about him flirting with different girls every night..and last night I had a dream about him leaving me at the alter, I told him about these dreams and he thinks its because I dont trust him, could that be the problem or is it something else?
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reader, dream101 +, writes (25 March 2010):
dream101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionactually calico58, ive been cheated on before by a few guys already..its just that he never told me about hanging out with this chick until she sent him a messege, not to mention they were drinking, im pretty sure thats the reason ive been having these dreams because it started right afterwards
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Dreams are basically regurgitations from your subconsious - tho sometimes they are thoughts that have reached the conscious mind too.
Yours is clearly displaying your fears/insecurity about his behaviour and your future together.
It does not mean any of it will happen, it is simply your subconcious mind processing in the dreaming state the things that are in the deep dark recesses.
Your boyfriend is spot on - deep down you fear trusting him!
You may find as your trust increases 9should that be the case) that dreams of this nature will cease as your mind will no longer feel the need to explore such scenario's.
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